Destination Elopement Photographer


Crafting one-of-a-kind elopements 
that integrate your unique story 
into the world’s wildest landscapes

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Eloping was made for those who embrace the road less traveled

It means choosing the spectacular over the conventional
replacing the expected with the extraordinary
being true yourselves, your story, your desires, your dreams

It’s a commitment to live every moment to the fullest.
And not let your wedding pass by feeling like just another day.

welcome to

adventure elopements reimagined

You don’t have to be an “adrenaline junky”, you don’t have to hike 10 miles or “rough it” to be immersed in nature.

Think of it more
like the best day
of your honeymoon.

A red helicopter is parked on rocky terrain, with snow-capped mountains and a glacier in the background under a cloudy sky—perfect for an adventure instead of a traditional ceremony.

Imagine

Standing in a jaw-dropping location that takes your breath away while you say your vows—yet that’s also a safe space where you can relax & be unapologetically yourselves. 

An experience that would make you feel fully alive, on-top-of-the world, yet deeply connected.

A place that just being there tells your body and mind and soul:
“This is special. This is not just another day. This is important.”

That’s how your wedding day should feel.

But how do you make this a reality?

With so many options, how can you choose?

It’s a thrilling, new experience, how can you enjoy it without worrying?

How could you find someone who would not only get your vision but has the experience, skill, and care to bring it to life better than you could imagine?

Sit back and relax, friend. Because this is what I do

Let’s make your elopement story one you light up to tell

Hey, I’m Maddie Mae

Your Elopement Photographer, Experience Designer & Planning Consultant

A woman with long hair and glasses, wearing a beige top and black lace cardigan, smiles while sitting on a sandy beach. Embracing the spirit of adventure, she holds one knee close to her chest as the wind blows through her hair—capturing moments only a Destination Elopement Photographer can seize.

“The woman who sparked the adventure
elopement trend”  – Forbes

I don’t just photograph elopements –
I design and plan a curated, unique experience around the two of you—one you’ll enjoy every minute of.

I want to get to know what makes you two feel alive and create an experience worthy of this
incredible love you’ve found

“The woman who sparked the adventure elopement trend”  – Forbes

40

40 countries and 7 continents worth of travel experience and knowledge

13

13 years experience planning and photographing elopements & weddings

300

300 one-of-a-kind elopements & intimate weddings planned & photographed

2019

the year I eloped too (after planning my own destination elopement in just 6 weeks)

What makes my elopement packages different?

Every Adventure Instead elopement experience includes:

So how does this work?

How to Adventure Instead in 3 easy steps

step 01

We meet & I learn about you two and your ideas

We’ll chat about you, your relationship, and what makes you feel alive so I can help you find the best corner of the world to say your vows and design a personalized experience tailored to you.

A couple prepares for an event at dusk beside their parked SUV in a mountainous area. The woman, wearing a dress, adjusts a garment inside the vehicle, while the man stands nearby adjusting his shirt. Various items and small stools are placed around the car.
A woman in a white dress climbs onto a rock from the water while a man in a white shirt swims behind her in a calm body of water. The sunlight reflects off the water, creating a serene and luminous atmosphere.

step 02

Personalized experience design & planning help

My seamless, stress-free planning process, refined over 300 elopements is tailored to your unique needs and pace. From curated location, activity, and lodging suggestions to timelines, permits, and logistics—I’ve got you.

step 03

Relax & soak in every surreal moment together (and we’ll make some magical, true-to-you images together)

It’s your wedding day! We adventure together and document the whole story of your incredible experience—from sun up to to sun down. 

A couple in white attire clinks wine glasses while seated at an outdoor table set with food and drinks. The scene overlooks a scenic cliffside and a vast body of water in the background. The environment is bright and sunny.

Reach out to start planning your dream destination elopement

Don’t worry, most couples who inquire with me have no plans at all. 
Helping turn vague ideas into a thrilling plan is my specialty.

I can’t wait to hear your ideas and help bring them to life

Note: I usually only photograph weddings with 25 guests or less
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5-Star Rated | 200+ Reviews

Two people in wedding dresses stand on rocky terrain, arms around each other, gazing into the distance. Behind them are mountains, forest, and a body of water under a clear sky—a scene perfect for a destination elopement photographer capturing their adventure.

There are not enough excessive adjectives to describe how thrilled we were with Maddie Mae as our wedding photographer. We first contacted her during our very early planning stages when we didn’t know exactly what we wanted for our adventurous elopement but were fairly sure we wanted it to involve a helicopter. We communicated throughout the whole process, and when we finally narrowed down our perfect vision for our day (which involved a helicopter landing on a snowy mountaintop followed by a beach picnic followed by riding bikes on the beach) she immediately understood and embraced our vision with the same adventurous spirit we have!

– Kari & Karin, Eloped on Vancouver Island, Canada

A couple in wedding attire embraces by a pristine, blue glacial lake, their adventure captured by a Destination Elopement Photographer. The woman wears a long white dress, the man in a dark suit. Snow-covered mountains rise majestically under a partly cloudy sky, creating an idyllic winter tableau.

“Maddie isn’t just your photographer, she also is your own personal hype girl—always making you feel like the most beautiful (or handsome) person in the world. She’s your honorary matron of honor and best man, she’s your officiant and elopement planner. She’s down for any adventure, and will be just as excited (if not more) for every experience during your adventure elopement. It really felt like we had all been best friends for years. She made our elopement unique to us, and I couldn’t have asked for a better photographer (and now friend) to have shared our day with and to help us make it as memorable as she did.”

– Jennifer & Max, Eloped in Alaska

“From the moment we started with Maddie, we knew we made the right choice! Maddie is able to professionally match your energy where you are at and enhance the experience you’re looking for. I appreciated her curious, consistent, and inquisitive nature to try to picture what we envisioned for our day. She is very thorough in the “getting to know you” stages so that she can ensure what you see can come into fruition the way you want. I felt at ease knowing she was coming and the overall experience was better BECAUSE Maddie was there because she created space to enjoy our elopement adventure better than we could have imagined.”

– Marina & Taylor, Eloped in Washington

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I’ve traveled to 41 countries, all 7 continents, and personally planned and photographed over 300 elopements worldwide—I’ve got you covered.

What does elope actually mean?

e·lope (v)

To have an intentionally intimate, authentic wedding experience where the focus of the day is actually about you two as a couple

Frequently Asked Questions about Elopements

And Destination Elopements

A destination elopement is an intentionally small wedding day in a location that the couple travels to. It differs from a destination wedding because it’s a smaller event, and it differs from a local elopement because it requires travel and planning a trip.

Similar to a traditional wedding, an elopement often includes activities and events such as getting ready, a first look, a ceremony with vows reading, first kiss, popping champagne, first dance, celebrating and can also include unique experiences like hot air balloon rides, helicopter tours, sailboat rides, hiking, canoeing, or skiing. An elopement day can be designed like an all-day “dream date” for the couple that truly reflects their personalities.

In addition to taking amazing photos, elopement photographers often take on more of a planning role and help couples find the right location to elope, assist with permits, recommend vendors to hire, and create a timeline for the elopement. Every elopement photographer has a unique approach to planning, and some offer more planning services in their packages than others. When hiring an elopement photographer, it’s important they clearly communicate exactly what’s included and who’s responsible for different aspects of the planning process so everything goes smoothly.

In the photography industry, elopement means an intentionally small wedding of 2-20 people. It could be just the couple getting married by themselves or with a few guests. An elopement photographer is someone who specializes in small, non-traditional weddings and often helps with the planning aspects since eloping couples typically don’t rent traditional wedding venues.

Elopement photographers tend to cost more than traditional wedding photographers because they are essentially a planner and a photographer all-in-one. In addition to taking photos, they also help you find the right location to elope in, create a timeline for your day with unique activity ideas, create a customized timeline, recommend vendors, and they have increased liability for helping with permits and marriage licenses. Adventure Instead’s elopement photography packages include full experience design, planning consultation, and award-winning photography and start at $13,200 for all-day coverage of international elopements with travel included; $9800 for all-day coverage of USA-wide elopements with travel included; and $6000 for 4-hour elopements in Colorado.

Elopement photographers are a much more full service provider than a wedding photographer and offer a more hands-on, comprehensive role in the planning process than a traditional wedding photographer does. Normal, big wedding photographers get hired after the couple books a venue and selects a date, and has often already hired a wedding planner, which means their role is limited to helping with the photography timeline and then showing up day-of and documenting the event as it unfolds, and delivering the images. However, most elopement photographers are contacted much earlier in the planning process by couples and eloping couples tend to not have a clear idea on what they want their day to look like (since they’ve likely not been to an elopement before)—meaning they heavily rely on their elopement photographer to advise on the best location, time of year, activities to do, and essentially create the entire experience and timeline for them based on their desires and personalities. Elopement photographers spend countless more hours in the planning process, and the liability for what they do is also higher as they tend to advise on permits and marriage licenses. When you hire an experienced elopement photographer, you’re essentially getting a planner in addition to a photographer. Bottom line, elopements require more skills and are more work for a photographer than traditional weddings are to photograph.

As one of the first photographers in the world to specialize in elopements, here are the 7 best questions to ask your elopement photographer in order to determine if they are the right fit for you and have adequate experience.

1) How long have they been photographing elopements?
2) Have they photographed an elopement in the area you are eloping before?
3) Can they share 5 full galleries of elopements that they have delivered to clients before that most closely match the type and location of elopement that you’re having
4) Exactly what’s included in their packages and what they help with in the planning process (vs. what you are required to do to help plan)
5)  What sets them apart from other elopement photographers?
6) What is their approach to posing and directing couples day-of
7) (If you are having a destination elopement) Have they traveled on a plane or gone abroad with all of their equipment before and have they looked into required visas and permits?

The main downside of an elopement is simply not having a lot of other people physically present when you say your vows. An elopement is typically only 2-20 people, so if you are a very outgoing person who enjoys big, high-energy parties and large family gatherings, you might find an elopement too quiet and calm. Other than not having more than 20 other people present, there’s no other downsides that come with an elopement as you can elope whenever and wherever you want, and elopements are less stressful, less expensive, and more focused on the couple’s experience (rather than the guest’s experience) than a big traditional wedding is.

Most countries recognize marriage licenses from other countries, however, depending on your country of citizenship and the country you’d like to get married in, the process of getting a marriage license can be lengthy and include language barriers and complicated legal requirements. Most couples who have destination weddings and destination elopements get a marriage license in their own country and sign it before or after their wedding. On the day of their wedding or elopement, they will still have the same ceremony as they would have and exchange vows, rings, etc. but they will technically be doing a commitment ceremony where they get married but it’s not legally binding in that country—since they already have a valid marriage license. 

Hey photographers, are you wondering…

How to become an elopement photographer

I don’t blame you—it’s the best job in the world. 
I also offer courses, programs, and personalized 1:1 mentoring options for photographers wanting to learn how to pivot into photographing non-traditional weddings and elopements (while making your dream income).

i’d love to help you

Adventure Instead
on your wedding day

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Maddie Mae of Adventure Instead is a destination elopement photographer based in Colorado, USA. She’s been to 40 countries and all 7 continents. She designs, plans, & photographs adventure elopements worldwide.

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