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Reasons to Elope from 200+ Real Couples
This isnāt like other elopement blogs youāve read.
A fun title, stunning elopement pictures, and a few random opinions on why elopements are cool.
This is different.
Donāt get us wrong, weāre not saying thereās anything bad about those blogs – weāve been professional elopement photographers and guides for years now, and we have plenty of our own opinions about how awesome eloping is!
Whatās different about this post is itās based on real data from 200+ couples. No opinions from photographers here – youāre about to read real thoughts from real couples who chose to elope!
We tried to find this data but couldnāt, so we collected it ourselves – We asked more than 200 couples why they chose to elope, and the top 10 reasons to elope (in order of frequency) are below.
Weāre so excited to share the actual, driving forces behind couples choosing to elopeāthe real reasons that people are bravely choosing to have a an intentional wedding day thatās perfectly in-line with who they are.
You donāt want to skip this one. The real reasons to elope might surprise you.
Reason to Elope #1) A āJust Usā Experience
Overwhelmingly, the very number one reason that people reported choosing to elope was that they wanted to experience a totally intimate wedding celebration – a day focused on just the two of them.
Couples said they wanted to strip away the pressure, anxiety and obligation they felt about having a traditional wedding. Instead they wanted a day authentic to them, which aligned with their values and vision! They wanted a ājust usā experience.
Elopements are beautiful options for people who donāt feel like the traditional wedding route is the right fit for them. An elopement grants them the freedom to decide how to commit their lives to each other. It creates a magical, intimate way for couples to make their wildest, most romantic dreams about their wedding day come true without asking them to sacrifice a single, intimate moment between the two of them.
Couples said they were free to melt into each other, focus on each other and celebrate their love in an uninhibited way that made the most sense for them – all because they chose to elope! No regrets, no stress, no pressure, no distractions – just two people committing their lives to each other.
āI want the day to be about my partner and I and the love weāre committed to building. Not about pleasing family members and conforming to traditions that donāt mean anything to us.ā
ā Survey Answer
āWe don’t regret any of itā¦we wanted our wedding date to be 100% about us, and we knew if we had a traditional wedding that wouldn’t happen.ā
ā Katie & Dylan
āWe wanted it to be intimate and unique. We didn’t want to focus on some of the worries that can happen on a wedding day and wanted to focus on us.
ā Steph & Jess
āWe wanted to have the most intimate and private ceremonyāto have that moment of becoming husband and wife just to ourselves.ā
ā Survey Answer
Reason to Elope #2) Authenticity
Authenticity was the second most frequently reported reason couples said they chose to elope. They were searching for an authentic ceremony experience that emphasized their true selves.
Some couples felt that the authenticityāthe real reason behind getting marriedāwas swallowed whole by the wedding industry in expectations that didnāt simply make sense to them. So many people would never dream of being a part of the traditional aspects of a big weddingāthe giant, pompous, fluffed-up, dress-up party in front of hundreds of people. The wedding industry is FULL of cookie-cutter traditions that donāt always speak to who you are as an individual or as a couple. When you sign up for a big wedding that doesnāt feel authentically you, you sign up for so much more that you just canāt connect with or donāt want (but thatās the thing about big weddings, itās all kind of a package deal).
For so many couples, a big, traditional wedding isnāt an honest, true reflection of who they are or what they want, and thatās OK.
Just like itās OK to want to have a big, traditional wedding, too.
Everyone is different, and everyone deserves to be authentically themselves on their wedding day. For people who donāt connect with big weddings, a traditional celebration can make you feel like youāve been put into a box. Elopements are all about throwing that box out the window.
When you elope, you throw out the whole rulebook and start from scratch. Eloping means your wedding can represent who you actually are as a coupleāyou can go on a hike with your dog, take a mini-road trip, stop and soak in the views, or end the day by turning on your favorite song and dancing by firelight.
At the end of it all, your wedding day is about you two – the love you have for each other and the life youāre going to build together. Choose a wedding that reflects your goals for the future!
āWe didn’t want to dilute the meaning and celebration across a sea of people of that haven’t weathered the ups and downs with us. And quite honestly, trying to plan a huge wedding is so anxiety-provoking! eek. We didn’t want to lose the magic.ā
āLiz & Regan
āThe idea of planning a traditional made me anxious. I couldnāt get behind the idea of putting so much focus into the “evenāāā¦to me that just isnāt what marriage is about. After the āeventā passes, itās just the two of youāforever. I wanted to focus on that.“
ā Survey Answer
Reason to Elope #3) Intimacy & Intention
Many couples we spoke to said the main reason they chose to elope was the opportunity to really focus on intimate, intentional moments during their wedding day. They didnāt believe a larger, more traditional wedding would afford them those moments. Honestly, theyāre on to something! Thereās a blunt truth about big weddings no one tells you: when you have a big, traditional wedding, youāre playing host to the biggest party of your life and itās not about you at all.
Big weddings rarely allow time for intimate, intentional moments. Donāt blame the guests – itās simply the nature of traditional weddings! More people, traditional actions that take up a lot of time, and expectations combine to eat up most (if not the entirety) of your wedding day.
All too often, we hear that couples choose big weddings because they āwant all the people I love together in one place.ā Thatās an absolutely great thing to want, but itās just impossible to have any meaningful interaction with that many people in one day (or even in a single weekend).
Letās do the math really quick: you have 150 people at your wedding and 3 minutes to speak to each of those people.
150 (guests) x 3 (minutes) = 450 (minutes of conversation)
450 / 60 (minutes) = 7.5 (hours of conversation)
Do the math for your planned wedding:
(Number of guests) x (Number of minutes you want to talk to each person) = (Number of minutes spent focused 100% on your guests!)
Thatās 7.5 hours of just 3-minute conversations. That doesnāt even include the ceremony, the toasts, the meal or dancing. Plus, how much can you really say in 3 minutes? Trying to talk to 150 guests in any meaningful way will take way more than 7.5 hours! Oh, and you didnāt get to speak to your spouse at all during this hypothetical wedding, which sounds awful!
It really is a nice idea to want all of your people there, but the reality is you canāt interact with that many people in any kind of meaningful way in that amount of time. You also deserve to spend time with the person youāre marrying. Sounds obvious, right? Unfortunately, most people having big, traditional weddings donāt get any alone time with their partners. Like, zero. Thereās no time to soak in the day together, no time to honor this huge life transition, no time to just be together until the party is over. If you asked us, weād say you deserve a celebration youāre not wishing was over before dessertās been served. You should enjoy each moment together! Elopements can afford you the opportunity for intimacy and authenticity without the fear of becoming absorbed in the details, timelines, and the sheer number of guests.
When you elope, youāre in the moment together. You can really feel and comprehend the fact that youāre getting married. Your so much more free to express your emotions because youāre not lost in the blur. You get the chance to pause, look into your partnerās eye, embrace it all, and say āthis is realāI just married you.ā
āWe have always envisioned a small, intimate wedding. We never really felt the need or want to invite guests who were long lost relatives or distant friends. A wedding should be a celebration of two becoming one – we wanted our day to be focused on each other and celebrate with the ones closest to us.ā
ā Courtney & Kyle
āFor us, the idea of a wedding (big or small) was daunting and stressful. Putting on a production for our friends and family just seemed so out of character for us. Plus, we knew we wanted to write our own vows, and we felt that our vows wouldnāt be as special if they were shared in front of a crowd of people. I personally wanted to focus on just my husband and the love and the connection I have with him on our wedding day. It was choice made entirely out of love for each other, love of the outdoors, and the desire for intimacy and privacy on our wedding day.ā
ā Survey Answer
āMy fiancĆ© and I choose to elope because we see the ceremony as something so intimate that only needs to be shared between us. We want to be able to read our vows, to cry, to laugh, and to become one under God without making it feel like we have to entertain guests.ā
ā Survey Answer
āI think we got to the point where we felt so overwhelmed with the amount of people we would invite and the planning and money involved. We went from thinking we’d have a wedding with 150 guests, to maybe a small destination wedding with 40 guests, to just an intimate ceremony with immediate family.ā
ā Kim & Mandy
Reason to Elope #4) Less Family Drama
Letās be real hereāthere are a lot of people out there who arenāt close to their families.
Not everyone has a dynamic, close-knit relationship with their family where they feel entirely comfortable and fully free to be themselves. Actually, Iād argue most people have reservations around the family they were raised in! Thereās a lot of baggage there, and itās often uncomfortable to deal with that at the same time youāre beginning a new life with your spouse.
And you know what? Thatās OK. Just like itās OK to have a family you are super close to.
Even couples who do get along well with their families will choose to elope to avoid the family drama that seems to always come up at traditional weddings! Couples we spoke to often pointed to a desire to avoid this seemingly-impossible-to-avoid drama on their wedding day. Eloping was an opportunity for them to prevent rifts or stresses they worried could be caused by the traditional wedding process.
For those who donāt have a supportive family, traditional weddings can be extremely traumatic. You deserve a wedding day surrounded by people who support you, your relationship, your goals and your love 100%! No judgement, shame, fear or stress should be present on your wedding day, and the sad truth is that family is sometimes the source of these negative feelings. So many wedding traditions involve playing out roles with members of your family, and those roles might not fit your dynamic at all! Getting walked down the aisle by your father, listening to toasts by your siblings, or even sitting down at the same table with your parents can feel foreign and unnatural to some couples – why put yourself through that?
Take a page from BrenĆ© Brown and remember that your biological family, or family of your youth, is simply your āfirst family.ā Your friends, your partners and your people are your chosen family. Your first family doesnāt have to be held up on the pedestal where traditional weddings often place those relationships – do what makes the most sense for your life and be sure to prioritize your relationship with your spouse on your wedding day!
FACT: Your wedding is your day.
This is your opportunity to create something uniquely beautiful with your partner – an event youāll look back on forever! Ensure that no matter how you choose to get married, youāre doing what you want to do. Give yourself the chance to be your most authentic self. You deserve to feel free to speak your mind to your partner while sharing your vows, without worrying who is listening.
Even if you didnāt grow up in a traumatic situation, even if you really have a healthy relationship with your family, but you donāt want to focus on your spouse, thatās OK, too. You donāt need any excuse to elope. If you want to elope – thatās enough reason to do it!
Families are complicated. Theyāre especially tricky to navigate when you get married. Do whatever feels right for you.
Be brave and make the decision that feels right for you.
ā I want to elope because family have made it difficult to actually want them there. We both would have a better, more relaxed, and enjoyable day without them. If we just go and elope, we can do that. Our wedding will actually be about us.ā
ā Survey Answer
āWe both have large families with complicated family dynamics and don’t want the stress of involving them or feel obligated to try to please everyone. Both of Shelby’s parents eloped or had private ceremonies when they got remarried (dad even did it twice), so the precedent to elope has been set.ā
– Shelby & Ross
āThere are too many obligations between divorced families. My parents donāt get along which causes more drama when trying to plan. The long list of people you āneedā to invite because theyāll be upset if they werenāt there. This day is about devoting yourself to another being, so why canāt it be personal and without stress?ā
– Survey Answer
āIf I could do it all again, I would have eloped to avoid the stress of all the logistics and family dynamics.ā
ā Survey Answer
Reason to Elope #5) Valuing Experiences Over Stuff
People who value experiences over tangible things tend to be drawn to elopements. Not because they donāt also want to invest money in their beautiful wedding day, but because they have a different set of desiresāand stuff just isnāt on that list.
Have you ever thought about how much trash comes out of a big wedding? Most of which is single-use plastic?
Letās break this down really quickly.
The average price of a wedding in the United States (according to The Knotās data from 2018) is about $33,931.
Thatās for what ends up being about a six-to-seven hour event (which, hello, breaks down to about $5500 an hour) And during that time, an average of 600 (600!) pounds of waste is produced.
Thatās $33,931 spent on things like decorations, venues, food, drinks, and more. Weāre talking cheap, flimsy party favors, all the material gifts from Amazon on a registry, every centerpiece, flowers, decor, the flatware, napkins, plates, and single-use attire that wonāt ever be worn again.
Itās hard to ignore the blunt truth of it allābig weddings are simply full of STUFF.
The people who answered our survey and said that budget was their reason for choosing an elopement werenāt saying that they didnāt want to invest money into their beautiful wedding day, just that they wanted to invest it differently.
So if stuff isnāt what youāre about, eloping can give you the freedom to get married in a much less wasteful way, where you focus on the experience, rather than the stuff.
Forget the ballroom and the chandeliers. Go on a hike at sunrise and have an incredible vista all to yourselves. Instead of paying $10K for your $65 a head meal for over 150 guests, why not go on an amazing trip together to somewhere youāve always wanted to go?
If you value experiences over things or a full passport over a fancy car, itās likely youād enjoy eloping more than a big wedding.
For the eco-conscious, intentional couples that donāt want to produce waste or deal with all that trash, for the couples that live their lives valuing experiences over things, for the couples that enjoy adventuring togeth
er rather than shopping togetherāelope!
āIt’s [a big wedding] very materialistic for a day that should be about pure, true love.ā
– Survey Answer
āWe had been talking about getting married for a while but neither of us could to commit to planning a wedding. We realized we just wanted to be married. We didn’t want a big wedding or the stress of planning one. We didn’t need an expensive party to make our 10+ year relationship feel more legitimate. Eloping sounded way more fun and was more in line with our personalities.ā
ā Laura & Patrick
āTruthfully, the expense and pageantry of a “traditional wedding” did not appeal to us. Throw family drama into the mix, and eloping was perfect for us. Plus, at least for Katie, the thought of saying vows in front of an audience was enough to make her want to puke. :)ā
ā Katie & Logan
āThe money!!! It just does not make sense! I understand that itās important to some people to have everyone there. Itās just not something thatās important to us. Honestly, that did upset a few people, which was uncomfortable. But once we get to the day, I know we wonāt regret any decisions we made.ā
ā Survey Answer
Reason to Elope #6) Less Stress & Anxiety
Many couples said they chose to elope because they desire a less stressful wedding day. We donāt blame them! Before becoming an elopement photographer, Maddie and Amber both photographed big weddings and know exactly how heartbreaking it is to watch a couple getting married witness their expectations get crushed.
In fact, countless people have said to us they couldnāt wait for their big wedding to be over! Please donāt let that be you!!
We never want you to feel that way about the day youāre married – you shouldnāt have to leave the party at the end of the night to finally experience a breath of fresh air. You should instead be wishing the day never ended! But for so many couples, planning a big wedding can pile on the stress, especially for people who arenāt invested in big parties normally. Itās all just too much.
For most couples, a wedding for over 150 people is probably the biggest event theyāve ever put on in their livesāwith that many people, dozens of vendors, spending tens of thousands of dollars, and dealing with everyoneās opinions and stress, this situation is going to cause anxiety (even if you have a wedding planner).
So, instead of this big, beautiful, magical day where everything is perfect, you end up the most stressed out youāve ever been over the logistical nightmare youāve accidentally createdāand you end up dreading your wedding.
Hereās the thing thoughāyou donāt have to feel that way. You should choose the type of wedding that brings you the most joy. With our eloping couples, we hear time and again that they felt relaxed, not rushed, and completely free of stress and worry on their wedding days. They feel centered. Present. Fully in love and truly there with their partners.
So, if planning a big wedding isnāt your thing, thatās OKāyou donāt have to choose that. You can choose to have a fun, stress-free, and wholly enjoyable wedding any way you want to. You can choose to marry the love of your life without even a hint of stress or anxiety.
āWe wanted to have a day just for us. Read our own vows, celebrate our love without additional pressure. It wasnāt an easy decision but it was the right one.ā
ā Alex & Josh
āI (Lauryn) could never envision myself having a large wedding. I’ve seen a lot of my friends get married already, and every friend has been stressed and frustrated by the whole process by the end. It seems like they’re throwing a party for everyone but themselves. I wanted to have an elopement/small wedding that was very nontraditional and “us”. I’ve always said that I would get married on top of a mountain. Once David and I started talking about getting married, I let him onto my plans. He was all for it. We’re all about a low-stress day that involves everything important to us.ā
ā Lauryn & David
āIf we had a big traditional wedding, we knew it wouldnāt be about us and rather about impressing our guests. Saying our āI Doāsā in front of 150+ people is more nerve-wracking and would not mean anything to us. We ended up having our private ceremony at a secret waterfall in Iceland and it was the most magical thing ever. No regrets!ā
ā Survey Answer
Reason to Elope #7) Too Much Planning
Truthfully, planning a big wedding can actually start out fun. (You can finally put that Pinterest board to use, right?)
And then you get into the thick of it. And suddenly, these are your day-to-day thoughts:
āWho do we invite?ā āWhich of our friends actually gets to be in the bridal party?ā āWhat about their plus 1s?ā āDoes my auntās new boyfriend get invited?ā āWhat hotels nearby will fit our 150+ guests?ā āHow many shuttles do we need?ā āI need how many dress fittings?!ā āWhatās the difference between a wedding shower and a bridal shower and a wedding gift?ā āYou want how much as the minimum for alcohol?ā āWhat gifts and favors do we give to our guests? ā āGeeze, this is adding up, should we get wedding insurance? ā āThe receiptsāhave you been saving the receipts?!ā
And it continues to pile up.
Suddenly, itās the night before youāre supposed to get married and you havenāt even written your vows! Youāve been trying to accommodate everyone and everything so much and still people are unsatisfied. At the end of the day, youāre wondering what all of this is even for.
But thatās not how getting married has to be.
Our survey showed that a lot of couples were choosing to elope (or would choose to elope) because they wanted either to minimize or totally eliminate the overwhelming planning that often goes hand-in-hand with having a huge wedding.
Elopements can free you from some of that stressful planning.
Yes, thereās some simple planning involved. Donāt get us wrongāweāre not saying that elopements are these last-minute, no-effort ceremonies that are devoid of meaning. Youāre just free to put as much planning (or as little planning) into your elopement as you want.
But really, just find some clothes you want to war, write your vows, maybe have a ring or some flower, and find a photographer who can find an amazing location and create an incredible experience for you.
Thatās it.
Want to bring family or friends? Cool. Do That. Rent a neat Airbnb and order up some local catering.
Big weddings can snowball so easily into planning nightmares. But with elopements, itās easy to plan the wedding day you want, melting away some of the stress, anxiety, and pressure that can come with a larger, more traditional wedding.
If the big party planning thing doesnāt appeal to you, thatās totally fine! Just plan for what you and your partner want.
Begin your lives together in a way that makes the most sense for youāhappy, free, and entirely in love.
āThe idea of walking down an isle and having a bunch of people kind of terrifies us…It feels like it wouldn’t have been a day for us, but instead for other people. I’ve heard many people talk about how they don’t even remember their wedding day or they were too exhausted to even enjoy it because they spent the whole time trying to talk to everyone who attended it. Also, eloping takes a lot less planning, which takes a lot of stress away.āā Jesi & DannyĀ
āTo be honest we did not want the drama and the stress of planning a wedding. This day is about us not all of that, this is more our style.āā Beverly & Jacob
āI started photographing weddings professionally over ten years ago. I joked āoh, when Iām married I will be a professional bride because Iāve seen it all!ā But now that I am older, I have quite literally seen it all. The headache of big weddings. The insane expense. The drama. And none of that is what I want. None of that is important.āā Survey Answer
Reason to Elope #8) Not the Center of Attention
Introverts make up about 40 percent of the population, so it makes sense that having a traditional wedding (which, typically directs a lot of attention to the bride and groom) might cause someone a ton of anxiety.
A lot of people said that they chose to elope because of social anxiety and the desire to have a day that didnāt make them the center of attention.
Everyone has their own, unique authentic version of who they are, and for some people, that doesnāt include a traditional wedding.
If that makes sense for you, you donāt have to choose a traditional wedding. You can have a day where youāre free to be who you are without worrying about whoās standing there watching you. If you identify as an introvert, if youād rather curl up together with a book than go out to a big party, if youād rather put on a record and listen to music than dance in a ballroom in front of 100+ guests, if youād rather enjoy an incredible meal on a picnic blanket soaking in the quiet atmosphere than host a huge, sit-down dinner with eyes on you to make a toast or give a speech, then eloping might be the perfect way for you to get married.
Eloping gives you the freedom to be who you are, the freedom to be completely vulnerable. You donāt need to edit or water-down your truest, heartfelt thoughts when you commit your life to your partner. You donāt have to consider an audience when you write your vows (or say them). You donāt have to spend the day worrying about other peopleās opinions or judgment.
You just get to be you.
We both donāt like being the center of attention but come alive in nature. The whole wedding industry seems so misdirected to us. People lose sight of what the day is really about, becoming husband and wife and not pleasing other people with fancy chinaware! This type of wedding fits our relationship so well. ā Brecka & Nick
Due to family living abroad, and the introverted nature of our personalities. We wanted the day to be about us and our marriage, and the small family unit we are. Not a day about a wedding. We are happy to forgo the stress of planning, pleasing, and putting on a show for others. Ā We want our day to be another day of adventure. Every day up until now has been an adventure, our wedding day will be an adventure and the rest of our lives will be filled with many more adventures. We prefer the care-free relaxed lifestyle and would like our day to be simple & meaningful & relaxed. ā Caroline & GregĀ
We decided to have an intimate wedding because honestly, it fits our personalities best. We value close friends over many acquaintances. If the wedding was to be in Spokane we knew everyone and their brother would want to come and that did not sound fun at all. When we are around a lot of people we donāt know very well we struggle to feel completely comfortable. Knowing this we had a brilliant idea to elope in Europe with either just the two of us or the two of us with our two closest friends. Then we thought how important it was to have our parents there and a few other key people in our relationship. That is when we chose to have a Colorado mountain top wedding. Itās a destitution but close enough to be reasonable. That is when I found you!! Best decision of the wedding so far š ā Katlyn & JaredĀ
āFirst, the two of us donāt like being the center of attention or giant spectacles. Anytime we thought of a traditional big wedding we either had no interest or felt like it would not be fun at all. The idea eloping was almost a nonissue for us, it was a natural decision. The life we created for ourselves was something we worked hard for and we wanted our next step to honor the home and life we have built in a way that was meaningful to us – so eloping outside it was!āā Survey Answer
Reason to Elope #9) Life Is Meant to be An Adventure
One common trait weāve seen among all couples who elope is they are unsatisfied with the status quo and are willing to accept the risk of stepping outside of it. They arenāt content to simply go through life with their head down, stuck in a routine, mindlessly walking through the motions that other people seem to do.
They see the world as a place full of opportunityāthey believe that they exist here in the world to grow, to learn, to discover, to be creative, and to experience connection and fulfillment in unique ways. No matter what theyāre doing, what their job is, where they liveāthey always choose to see life as the grandest adventure.
They go through the journey with their eyes and hearts wide openāwith the bravery to be curious and the courage to accept the unpredictability of life.
And thatās the thing about themātheyāre adventurers in their own way.
Adventure isnāt about hiking or skydiving or cliff jumpingāitās a belief that failure is the path to growth, that vulnerability is the path to love, and the most worthwhile experiences in life probably arenāt on the well-worn path. Being an adventurer is a lifestyle of risk-taking, innovating, pushing ourselves to go further and climb higher, to press on through the fear of ānot being enough,ā and holding onto the conviction that our struggles are a vital part of the view from the top.
For the couples who see life as a grand adventure, it only makes sense that the way they begin their lives together should be with an adventure, too
āOur relationship was born in adventure so we wanted to get married in adventure.āā Amber & Lee
āOur lives together has been an adventure so far, so why not have that special commitment be another adventure? We have always done things just the 2 of us and we didn’t feel that our wedding should be any different. It should be about our happiness and not trying to modify or spend extra money to make someone else happy with our decision/commitment. August 18th should truly represent who WE are as a couple.āā Kerry & Clint
āIt felt like an adventure, not a compromise. And even though some people have expressed that they think itās wrong for whatever reason, I would never change my mind.āāSurvey Answer
Reason to Elope #10) Amazing Photos
Thereās this common thought that couples who elope donāt care about their dayāthat theyād never want to invest in amazing photos because theyāre just spontaneously getting married and āskipping overā the wedding stuff.
That is so incredibly wrong.
Couples who elope care so much about their wedding experiences that theyāre willing to take the risk of going against the status quo of having a big wedding and find the courage to create a unique wedding experience thatās actually true to who they are.
They also care so much about remembering their wedding experienceāboth by being present on their day and by having incredible photographs to look back at.
Weāve had a lot of couples come to us who are worried that wedding photos wonāt capture them as they truly areāthat most wedding photos they see are too posed, too fake, or that the emotions in them were created just for the photographs.
But when you elope, that doesnāt exist. Youāre forced out of the 30 minutes of rushed ālook at me and smileā¦now kiss each other and laughā routine thatās rinsed and repeated against six different backdrops (yikes).
In our survey, couples told us that they believe that elopement photography helps to capture real, true, and intimate moments from their day. Why?
Because elopements afford you the time and opportunity to be in your true elementāand they allow us as photographers the time and opportunity to capture real, beautifully genuine moments. When we photograph elopements, we donāt do any fake or forced posing cuesāwe just donāt need to.
We document the two of you having the time of your lives and being your truest selves.
Memories are vital.
Theyāre cherished forever, and people know how important that is. They want to make sure the photos they have from their day are genuine and real, that they reflect how they were truly feeling.
That way, when they look at them, theyāll be launched back to that day, feeling everything all over again.
āWe would want to elope to fully be in the moment, exploring somewhere special with my partner. No schedule (mostly), no rules, and no other people to please. Then, once we do that and get back from cool place we went to, with some badass photos, we throw an awesome party to celebrate and show off pictures with loved ones ;).āā Survey Answer
āThe idea of getting married in beautiful scenic mountains is much more memorable and relaxing then walking around a venue hall talking to everyone including people Iāve never met. The pictures will be way better because Iāll feel more comfortable and confident in my element which is outside in nature. I donāt want to look back at my photosĀ and see a stressed-out bride.āā Survey Answer
āThe idea of getting married in beautiful scenic mountains is much more memorable and relaxing then walking around a venue hall talking to everyone including people Iāve never met. The pictures will be way better because Iāll feel more comfortable and confident in my element which is outside in nature. I donāt want to look back at my photosĀ and see a stressed-out bride.āā Survey Answer
āElopement photos are SO beautiful and intimateā¦at the end of the day a wedding shouldnāt be about pleasing or impressing anybody else but yourselves! Just do you.āā Survey Answer
If you believe an elopement is the wedding experience to suit your needs and affirm your vision – we’d love to help!
You already know how important photography is for documenting your elopement adventure, now itās time to talk planning!
We have helped hundreds of couples plan true-to-them authentic elopement experiences all over the world. We can help you plan your elopement in Colorado, anywhere in the United States, or even in another country.
Where would you want to elope?